It is important to understand that a love relationship cannot fill up any void within you. It is only supposed to add to your own happiness and your own self-worth.
Some people’s love relationships are doomed from the start. Why? Either because these people lack something and nurture the false hope that their partners will provide them with that elusive ‘something’ or because they are not willing to learn from their previous mistakes and change their attitude and behaviour.
For a love relationship to be healthy, loving and successful, you firstly need to feel good about yourself and empowered, no matter how bad your past relationships had been. Since life is a learning curve, everybody makes mistakes; the trick is to learn from your mistakes and avoid repeating them.
Some women repeat the same old destructive patterns (habits) when it comes to finding a man (or woman)– like going to the wrong type again and again, or letting some of their behaviours or insecurities ruin their relationships – so they are less than likely to find and retain the right type of person.
So what’s the solution? Just break these destructive patterns, whatever they might be (choices, attitudes, thoughts, actions) which lead to the same poor results, and replace them with some new patterns that could lead to better and healthier relationships.
You have already tried your best to improve but didn’t succeed? Don’t feel bad about it.
Occasionally, the patterns, habits or mindset might have become a part of you and it has become very difficult for you to get rid of them all by yourself.
If this is the way you feel, seek help from therapists, counsellors and life coaches, instead of letting these destructive habits ruin your chances of happiness with the right person. These professionally-trained experts can help you to get rid of these patterns quickly and effectively (in most cases, a few sessions are sufficient.)
Keep that in mind if you're struggling to find romance.
And don't forget to use your best weapon: your smile :)
xx
Some people’s love relationships are doomed from the start. Why? Either because these people lack something and nurture the false hope that their partners will provide them with that elusive ‘something’ or because they are not willing to learn from their previous mistakes and change their attitude and behaviour.
For a love relationship to be healthy, loving and successful, you firstly need to feel good about yourself and empowered, no matter how bad your past relationships had been. Since life is a learning curve, everybody makes mistakes; the trick is to learn from your mistakes and avoid repeating them.
Some women repeat the same old destructive patterns (habits) when it comes to finding a man (or woman)– like going to the wrong type again and again, or letting some of their behaviours or insecurities ruin their relationships – so they are less than likely to find and retain the right type of person.
So what’s the solution? Just break these destructive patterns, whatever they might be (choices, attitudes, thoughts, actions) which lead to the same poor results, and replace them with some new patterns that could lead to better and healthier relationships.
You have already tried your best to improve but didn’t succeed? Don’t feel bad about it.
Occasionally, the patterns, habits or mindset might have become a part of you and it has become very difficult for you to get rid of them all by yourself.
If this is the way you feel, seek help from therapists, counsellors and life coaches, instead of letting these destructive habits ruin your chances of happiness with the right person. These professionally-trained experts can help you to get rid of these patterns quickly and effectively (in most cases, a few sessions are sufficient.)
Keep that in mind if you're struggling to find romance.
And don't forget to use your best weapon: your smile :)
xx
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